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Courageous Leadership

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Are You Missing This Skill?

August 20, 2021

Are you noticing? Noticing the energy you bring to any and every situation.

✨We often forgot (or have been programmed to forgot) that we have the power to change our energy at any time.
✨We often forgot the incredible power we do have simply in remembering we have choice.
Without intentionally choosing, we leave the door wide open for our subconscious programming to run the show.
Programming that often drains us of our power and the outcomes we are seeking. 
The result: a sense of anxiety and overwhelm that we often repeat on the road to burnout. 
In coaching clients using my Courageous Leadership Platform, there is a movement into

Empowered Leadership.

Empowered Leadership is about becoming more before doing more.

And, becoming more requires the courage to lead with the heart.

Leading with the heart requires consciously choosing the energy that matches our desired outcome and then becoming that energy.

This is our true, life giving power.

To become that energy requires feeling it. This is where heart intelligence becomes so important.
If you’ve been following me you know the importance of heart intelligence.
According to an article in Psychology Today, the heart beats before the brain forms. 
When the brain is dead, the heart continues to beat so long as it has oxygen.
In fact, the heart has 40,000 neurons and the ability to process, learn, and remember. It also has its own emotions.

According to Heartmath Institute, the heart is the most powerful source of electromagnetic energy in the human body, producing the largest rhythmic electromagnetic field of any of the body’s organs.

The heart’s electrical field is about 60 times greater in amplitude than the electrical activity generated by the brain.
The magnetic field produced by the heart is more than 100 times greater in strength than the field generated by the brain and can be detected up to 3 feet away from the body, in all directions, using SQUID-based magnetometers.
The Heartmath Institute has been leading research related to heart-brain coherence.
According to Research Director Dr. Rollin McCraty, “Coherence is the state when the heart, mind, and emotions are in energetic alignment and cooperation. It is a state that builds resilience.”
When the parasympathetic and the sympathetic system are out of sync from emotions such as anger, anxiety, or frustration, this produces an erratic rhythm or incoherent state. The brain receives this input which affects whether higher cognitive functions can be accessed to self-regulate.

Noticing is key to leading powerfully and it begins by powerfully  regulating our own chemistry. 

When Self-Care Isn’t Helping

August 9, 2021

One common, client complaint is the sense of burnout that comes from growing a business or keeping pace with business.

Whether it’s running an entire business or a division of business, it can often feel like the business is running us.

Our leadership can quickly become compromised and our energy right along with it.
We forget who we are.
We may try implementing self-care in the form of exercise, massage, or leadership books which may temporarily help.
However, it is often the case in my experience, that without realizing it,
self-care becomes just another thing to do in an attempt to create some semblance of balance so that we can keep going,
keep chasing after feeling better. 
That is until we do burn out because we’re attempting to solve a problem at the same level of thinking we used when we created it.
(Einstein paraphrased)

Are You Choosing Procrastination or Empowerment?

July 21, 2021

Greater Awareness for Greater Productivity

According to Dr. Tim Pychyl, professor of psychology and member of the Procrastination Research Group at Carleton University in Ottawa,“Procrastination is an emotion regulation problem, not a time management problem.”
In a 2013 study, Dr. Pychyl and Dr. Sirois found that procrastination can be understood as
“the primacy of short-term mood repair … over the longer-term pursuit of intended actions.Put simply, procrastination is about being more focused on “the immediate urgency of managing negative moods” than getting on with the task,
Dr. Sirois said
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Awareness Trumps Aversion

He goes on to say. The particular nature of our aversion depends on the given task or situation. It may be due to something inherently unpleasant about the task itself — having to clean a dirty bathroom or organizing a long, boring spreadsheet for your boss.

But it might also result from deeper feelings related to the task, such as self-doubt, low self-esteem, anxiety or insecurity.

Staring at a blank document, you might be thinking, I’m not smart enough to write this. Even if I am, what will people think of it?
Writing is so hard. What if I do a bad job?

All of this can lead us to think that putting the document aside and cleaning that spice drawer instead is a pretty good idea.

Intentionally Turn Inward Versus Cruising on Auto Pilot

So next time you find yourself procrastinating, instead of turning away from possibly outdated beliefs or imprinting, choose to turn inward.

Allow yourself to go further, to go deeper and leverage that newly discovered awareness and power. In the end, you may just feel empowered and super productive.

And if you’d like a partner to support your growth and progress, get in touch here.

The Power of One Word

July 12, 2021

 
Words create worlds. They hold meaning and charge.  All of which is energy.

The word “procrastination” dates back to the 1500’s so over centuries, this word has gained great power.
The question is, “how are you using this power?”

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How to Leverage Procrastination

July 6, 2021
As I sit to write blog, it is common that procrastination comes to sit with me.
Perhaps like you, I’ve cultivated much greater awareness of this companion largely because I’ve chosen greater self-compassion rather than allow
self-criticism to run the show.
And because I believe our lives are truly our laboratories for growth, in exploring procrastination for myself and my coaching clients, I developed a simple exercise to leverage procrastination. This is also an empowerment tool from the Courageous Leadership Platform and involves changing our relationship to procrastination. I hope you find it useful.
So just like changing our relationship to anything, it often begins with changing our perception. One powerful way of changing our perception is in the words we choose.
When you think of the word procrastination, how does it make you feel?
When I checked it, I felt badly; even guilty.

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